Happy Mother’s Day!
May 11, 2008 by ElfNinosMom
To all the moms out there who read this blog, I’d like to wish you a blissful Mother’s Day. 
I’ve gotten two very strange “Happy Mother’s Day” wishes today.
One was a Mother’s Day text message from a crazy girl who used to date Elf. Very long story, but I have no earthly idea why that girl thinks I want to get a Mother’s Day wish from her. I will never even so much as speak to her again, and she’s delusional to think I would.
The other strange Mother’s Day wish was when the doorbell rang, and some clean-cut young guy wished me Happy Mother’s Day from Barack Obama, complete with a photocopy handout with a picture of Obama and his family which says “Happy Mother’s Day from Barack and Michelle Obama”. He also wanted to know if I will be voting for Obama. I told him “yes” just to get him off my porch.
If the Libertarian Party nominates Bob Barr, Wayne Allyn Root or Mary Ruwart, I probably will vote for Obama. So, it wasn’t completely a lie. However, if I had been here by myself, I would have given that young man a long lecture on why he should be a libertarian, just to be sure they don’t knock on my door again. 
On both Mother’s Day wishes, I just have to scratch my head in wonderment, LOL
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Happy Mother’s Day.
Maybe the girl looks up to you or something.
Today my mom got a call from one of her/our former students. He & his brother were raised by their grandparents. This year they lost both grandparents within a month. JC was never in my mom’s classes but only went to her class for extra help usually with tests. It was kind of like Content Mastery or learning lab classes.
Before my husband and I were dating, in our just friends days, I got him a silly Valentine’s Day card. We both laugh about it now because when I signed it I wrote something like, “Isn’t it pitiful that you are the closest thing I have to a Valentine.” Perhaps there is no one else in this girl’s life to hold on to for Mother’s Day. Sad…
I read Ruwart’s book when she announced her candidacy. I found it an over simplified means of creating Utopia. I don’t know who I will vote for if Libertarian Party nominates Bob Barr, Wayne Allyn Root or Mary Ruwart, maybe none of the above.
Recently, my mom was admitted to the hospital confused. The doctor asked her, “Who’s the President.” My mom said, “I don’t know, but our country is in big trouble.” Even confused my mom has more sense than some ~
I guess I should explain what the ex-girlfriend did, so I don’t look like a terrible person. I am not upset with the girl because she isn’t dating my son. Personally, I couldn’t care less about that. She and my son have dated on and off for years, and I always stayed in touch with her even when they weren’t dating.
Recently, she agreed to marry my son. Then suddenly, she left without so much as a fare-thee-well, decided she was gay, and shacked up with a bull dyke lesbian girlfriend.
She lured Elf to their house on the request that he drop off some shoes she left here. It was very, very late when she called, and he happened to be in that part of town; he had previously put the shoes in his car. When he got there to drop them off on her porch, he was attacked with a baseball bat by the bull dyke, who was hiding around the side of the house.
I spoke to the girls very shortly after it happened. They admitted what they had done, and I was told they did it because the ex-girlfriend gets “confused” when she talks to Elf. Well, I’d be confused too, if I couldn’t decide if I was gay or straight. That’s hardly Elf’s fault.
So yes, she may have no one else (though that’s very unlikely since her mother and her grandmother are still alive and in her neighborhood). However, it’s far, far more likely that she simply wants to know if I have forgiven her for what she did to my son. I have not, and I never will. I treated her like my own child, even referred to her as “the daughter I never had”, and this is how she shows me how much she appreciates what I have done for her.
So she is dead to me, and it is no one’s fault but her own.
I didn’t think you were a terrible person; I thought maybe the ex-girlfriend wasn’t playing with a full deck. Your story certainly confirms that. I hope your son pressed charges.
Oh, didn’t think you were being terrible. I figured either you were just being a mom because she hurt your son. Or you wanted no contact with her out of respect for your sons wishes.